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Ten Ways To Feng Shui Your State Of Mind
By Deborah Redfern
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A Feng Shui state of mind is a feeling of deep inner peace, balance and harmony. This state of mind can give you both an energy boost and unblock energy. The potential to be in this state of mind is with us always, but the real challenge is learning how to listen to it. There is so much happening on the surface: distractions, mental clutter, to-do lists, and more, make it difficult to reach that inner state of grace.

 

Whenever I find the business of life pull me away from my center, I consciously put in place one or more of these following activities. They are simple, but effective methods that will help you turn off the external noise and tap into your feng shui state of mind.

1. Movement

Movement is wonderful for quieting the mind because it teaches you how to listen to your body. Your body is your soul home and when you listen to your body, you are really listening to your soul. Yoga and Tai Chi are both excellent forms of movement to quiet the mind, but it can be as simple as going for a walk--especially if you can find a quiet place--can quiet your mind and help you feel more balanced.

2. Meditation

There are many different ways to meditate such as silent meditation, following a guided meditation, repeating words such as Om, reciting prayers, mantras, progressive relaxation and biofeedback. Did you know that it takes just 7 minutes of meditation for your brain patterns to shift into calmer and quieter states?

3. Breathing

Most of us do not breathe fully. We use only the top third of our lungs. Try taking slow, full breaths that fill your entire lung capacity, and slowly exhale. Repeat several times. Controlled breathing balances your right and left brain and helps you be in a more aware state.

4. Sound

Sound is a traditional healing tool in many cultures in the world. Drumming, chanting or singing, bells, singing bowls, gongs: all produce vibrations and an internal resonance that promote beneficial changes in your brain. This will help you reach more relaxed and harmonious states. You can experiment with this by listening to Gregorian chanting, or by chanting Om. What other sounds are soothing? Sounds of nature (try putting on a nature sounds CD) and mediation music are two I enjoy.

5. Writing

Writing a journal or diary has a cathartic effect for many people because it empties the unconscious mind of things such as anxieties, worries, anger and mental to-do lists and frees up energy. Writing can produce a greater sense of well-being and balance in your life. Another practice that is immensely beneficial is to keep a gratitude journal. This is basically a list: jot down all the things that you are grateful for in your life. This is also a method to increase your feeling of abundance.

6. Being in nature

Spending time in a park or the countryside heightens your senses and awareness and brings a sense of harmony. All your senses are activated. The smell of grass, trees and flowers, the sound of the birds, the feeling the sun or wind on your skin and the feel of the ground beneath your feet can be wonderfully healing and restorative. Visualizing yourself in a place in nature has similar restorative effects.

7. Make a change in your home

Have you noticed that feeling of harmony when your house is clean? By bringing awareness to your surroundings your state of mind is affected. Cleaning your house also clears cobwebs from your mind. Also try bringing in a new color, changing the furniture layout, rearranging your artwork collection or change around your decorative displays.

8. Reduce Clutter

Clutter is a big drain on mental, physical and emotional energy. There is nothing like the satisfaction of opening a drawer or closet and being able to find exactly what you are looking for, without having to search. Clutter are those things you never use, do not really need, do not like, are broken or a poor fit, to name just a few examples. If there is too much to tackle yourself, consider asking a friend to help, or hire a clutter clearing specialist.

9. Take care of business

Is there anything you have been putting off doing? How do you feel when you think about it? Procrastination has a high cost. It robs you of vital energy and can produce feelings of guilt. If you are having difficulty getting going on a task, a session with a personal or business coach may help.

10. Space Clear your Home

Space clearing releases stuck energy patterns in your home that can affect your own energy levels and sense of well being. Begin by physically cleaning and tidying your home. There are many methods of space clearing. An easy method is to clap your home. Walk around the perimeter of each room in your home while clapping your hands, paying attention to corners where stagnant energy tends to stick. While you are clapping imagine the stagnant energy being replaced with a sense of love and harmony. You may also wish to put specific wishes or messages into your home representing current goals in your life.

Copyright © 2008 Deborah Redfern. All rights reserved.

Author of "Odyssey of the Heart: Paths to Wholeness through Feng Shui" Deborah Redfern is a feng shui master who specializes in feng shui for emotional well being. She offers a FREE monthly ezine (Hope is a Thing with Feathers) which has articles, tips, special offers and more. To get a free subscription go to http://www.estel.ca

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6 Fantastic Bedroom Moves That You Can Try Today
 
6 Fantastic Bedroom Moves That You Can Try Today
By Stephanie Buehler, Psy.D.
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Want to make your partner purr with pleasure? It's easy if you know about the erogenous zones. Body parts rich with nerve endings are erogenous zones. Known for their sensitivity, these zones bring extra pleasure. Besides the obvious, there are other wonderful areas for you to explore. As a sex therapist, people do complain to me that their partners sometimes are clueless about how to proceed with foreplay. Moves like this can make foreplay more exciting, and exploring one another's bodies in this way can bring added intimacy.

 

1. Lips. Sexy and soft, playing with a partner's lips can be a turn-on for both of you. Of course, you can go beyond a smack or a French kiss. Try sucking your partner's lower lip into your mouth. Or run your tongue around your partner's mouth, just on the inside where lip meets mouth. Or just on the outside, all around the outline. Bite or nibble upper or lower lip gently. Use a finger to touch your partner's lips, again tracing outlines.

2. Fingers. Fingers are overlooked as erogenous zones. The entire surface of the hand is incredibly sensitive. Use your own fingertips to trace around the center of your partner's palm. Gently stroke the underside of the fingers lengthwise. Rub your thumb in a circular fashion around the pads of flesh on the palm at the base of each finger.

3. Feet and toes. Feet and toes are ticklish, but they are also centers for pleasure. Many people like their feet rubbed. A sensual massage can send your partner into bliss. Try adding a little bit of peppermint oil to some unscented massage oil or lotion for a bit of coolness. Some people like to have oral play with feet. If you do, don't be embarrassed-feet are very sexy!

4. Ears. Ears are sensitive, too. People often like to have their ears licked or nibbled. Some people enjoy a tongue thrust into the ear; others do not. Experiment and see what makes your partner wiggle with delight.

5. Scalp. This is a surprising erogenous zone, but the scalp has many nerve endings. Use the pads of your fingertips to give your partner a massage. Or, gently stroke your partner's forehead and all around the hairline.

You can probably think of some other fun areas to explore on your partner's body. Don't be inhibited! Relax first, then take your time to tickle your partner's fancy. One additional advantage: You and your partner now have an easy, fun way to spice things up when making love gets dull.

Dr. Stephanie Buehler is Director of The Buehler Institute in Orange County, CA. As a licensed psychologist and AASECT certified sex therapist, she specializes in helping couples discover better intimacy, in and out of the bedroom. FREE REPORT! Top Ten Tips for Great Sex! Just sign up for Dr. Buehler's E-zine at http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com

Dr. Buehler is frequently quoted in the media, most recently in Esquire, Time Magazine, Redbook and Self. She is the editor of the Women's Sexual Health Journal and considered an expert on the subject of sexual health for both men and women. To reach Dr. Buehler, please call 800-769-0342. Click here to read Dr. Buehler's media kit.

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